You'll have to start your own meetup group, Kimmer! The "anti-social" meetup group and at events, have everyone sit at different tables and not talk to each other...
Not sure about how you roll, but I do find that attending a lounge on a regular basis or perhaps better, a coffee shop... I like to engage with the bartenders and attendants... becoming "regular"... because these are the people who see many people... many "regulars" on a day to day basis and can connect you with people...
