Ditto what JB said. I'd proceed as planned. The other option seems to be offering your W the opportunity to stay in your home until your son graduates. 5 years?! No way man.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce