I struggle with the same dilemma. I feel like I am still holding on to him by holding onto his stuff. Let him take it. We cant hold on to them. They will come back on their own.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13