Took your advice and have not sent a non kid/financial e-mail to her. Have not discussed the R or our M.
I have no problem giving my W space and letting her do her own thing. My focus through this process was being the best dad that I could be for my kids.
W told me that she has purposely been hands off with the kids the last few weeks.
I have no problem takings things day by day continuing to build my R with the kids, continue doing my 180's and working on GAL activities.
When it comes to my W I am trying to live without any expectations, but this is hard. The last two weeks she has been more intimate with me than we have been in a long time. She is also wanting to talk more and more. We are also doing more things together as a family.
As I previously stated W has indicated that she beleives that all this change is a temporary thing. I simply state that I am taking things day by day and that I am sorry she feels that way. It took her a long time to get where she is and will take a long time to get passed where we are.
Do I keep doing what I am doing and wait for my W to initiate any talk of reconciliation? Part of me hopes that she does not bring it up and that we take it slowly day by day. Then the impatient me would like her to put her ring on, etc. etc.
I think that there will be a time for this to come up and if I bring it up I may cause her to move two steps back.
