Sounds like you are doing very well considering how shocked and hurt you are right now. You're doing things right and have found a very supportive and pro-marriage community here. Keep taking exceptional care of yourself, work on you and what you can do that would make marriage to you better than before, and hang in there. You're right, this will take time. Adinva
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
