Well we know that the OM is validating and being sympathetic to everything the W is saying and she's refusing to "get over" past mistakes. First off, I would suggest that when she gets on the rant about those hurts AGAIN, that snow very firmly reminds her that those are things that happened in the past and will not be defined by them.
Personally I would confront her and do the "I will not share my W" speech and say that he will not be the focus of all the woes in the M. She's owned up to a very small part of the problems. But as long as she has the OM, she will always be "right".
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.