Cadet: You said, "Divorce = Space" Could you elaborate on that? Briefly, my MLC husband walked away 12/10/11. I've spent the better part of the past 3 months doing all the wrong things, and he filed for divorce 3/5/12. Without knowing I was doing it, I started "the last resort" last Wednesday. I hoping against hope that at the very least he will stop these divorce proceedings before it reaches completion - I'm in California, so it takes a minimum of 6 months from when I was served (3/19/12).

I apologizing for hijacking on the thread........that commentabout divorce just made my heart skip a beat.