Write down at least 3 questions for them before hand. You'll give backstory, length of marriage, kids, prior separations or fights or traumas in life but don't get into too much history that isn't relevant to TODAY
tell them HER issues (ie, what she SAYS is wrong with you or the marriage)
how YOU see it and what is valid, versus fabrications, and what YOU want...
then they might ask you stuff but make sure you get some specific advice about how to handle questions or situations that worry you the most.
I had some "mantras" ready and they helped me a lot. Either for me only
or for my kids or for my h in the event of an argument or uncomfortbable sitch.
Good luck!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
