Alamo,

fwiw, there are ways to apologize without admitting specifics. Like "W, I don't recall it that way but I am sorry I hurt you. If I had the chance to do it all over I'd do many things differently."

Several of her assertions, if admitted by you, are not at all helpful to you.

Did you get physical with her? Did you purpoesly drop your son? Those are criminal offenses in all states and I've had clients in jail for less. Admitting them is dangerous for you. IT's one thing to LEARN from them, another thing to lose your liberty.

The allegation of child porn is a serious one and that gets jail time....don't minimize that.

On the other hand, I'd argue, if I were your L, that if she really had any of these fears why on earth does she let you have son at all?

I would not count on seeing him at all in SC if these are things she's willing to put in writing.

Also your first sentence with her letter, to us, is that it was mostly true and then "mostly not true."

Well?

Anyhow Her letter is calm, powerful and resolute.

See what your L says. Send nothing more to her until you get a legal opinion.


And try to use this as a tool for your future. I think there is a lot to learn from this.

If half of what she says is true, I hope you've done some deep digging inward. That is where the real journey in life is.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change