NYCPeter, are you done? Are you at the point now where you accept that your relationship with W is over and you're ready to move on? If so, say what you want, as long as doing so is consistent with the person you want to be.
If not, and if you still have hopes for an eventual reconciliation, then hold your tongue. Assume that she knows how much it hurts you and has decided she's ok with it. Why give her the satisfaction of acknowledging it? It's more powerful if you just ignore it.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
