Trusting, You do what you need to do to correct the child support payments. Oh, you are definitely hitting him below the belt and yes, money is their "power" and God while in crisis.
I don't blame you for calling him on his behavior. I wouldn't worry too much about his spewing, he'll get over it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
