I have decided that I will start calling my ex on any bad behavior. I am very tired of it. I will do it in a very calm and unabrasive way, but boundaries here I come.

I have a court date with ex next Monday to raise child support due to it getting decreased last January due to an error on my part. He is starting to stew about this and has asked me several times to stop the hearing. He goes from spewing, to pleading, to bargaining. Money is his God.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11