Mainly to vent at this point 2the point. I plan to update when there is some movement from her as it will be interesting to see where she is. It will also be interesting to see if she ever shows any remorse for her actions as to how they have affected both myself and her children.

I sill have love for this woman despite everything that has gone on, and the only logical way I can come to terms with it is to realize that it was a huge mistake.

I also posted to serve as a warning to others to know who you are getting in bed with, because as numerous sitches on here prove, what you think you are getting versus what you actually get can be two different things entirely.

I am certainly not trying to "bring down" the community with the fact that my sitch is most likely unrecoverable. Unfortunately that is the reality of my sitch right now. There are 5 months that need to pass before the divorce can be filed, so who knows what will happen between now and then.


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!