Have a meeting scheduled with her attorney later this week. Everything is going OK for the last week. I haven't decided wither to go or not. Any opinions. I think if I cancel she may be mad... and if go she certainly may be mad as not planning on backing down from what I want custody and asset wise. I would love to talk to her about things, but following the advise of not instigating conversations about the future, us, or the divorce. I'm hoping she will bring it up sometime this week.