Yes, NLW, as painful as it is, that's the reality and acceptance is the key. It doesn't mean that there is no chance of reconciliation but your best hope is to create a life for you and you children.

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Just weird, as my dad was like a father to H and, up until bomb drop, H had been his confidante. I suppose I'll just never understand....
Not really as the WAS has usually been emotionally divorced from us for a while before they leave. In their heads, they've already cut those old ties. Once we understand and believe that it all becomes easier.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss