I wanted to come back to the posting about the ow sending you the text. She did that so that you would get angry and either tell your h about it or text her back in an angry tone. Ignore the message and just think of her as a bee trying to sting you. The op like to stir the pot up when they feel that nothing is happening in the way of fighting, etc., between the spouses. Continue not taking the bait from either one.
So, what is on your agenda today?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
