W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

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Snowman. One of the notes I made after reading your threads the first time...

- I would bet if you checked phone records, each of the (too) many times she wanted to talk about the possibility of reconciliation, you would find that she had just ended a flurry of calls/txt's w/an affair partner/potential affair partner. Once they made up/she found someone new, she was back to ... WaW mode.

She doesn't like to be alone.
When she's not alone, and feels she has an "upgrade" available, she's in full on Entitled Brat mode.

And, the above reasons that she gives/has for you having son during her visitation time... While its great for you, since you enjoy having him... How do you schedule your life? And, consider this, any worthy, potential mate isn't going to appreciate being constantly on-call, and required to change plans/schedule at the drop of a hat.

I adore my boys. I have always said yes if there's been a problem w/xH having them during his visitation time... But, he also gives me a heads up immediately, and asks if I can make the change, or should he make other arrangements. He knows I'm out living my life.