XW brought S17 back tonight. He spent the entire Spring Break with her. I found out that XW told S17 on Wednesday that "it is time" for S17 to meet OM. She had him over for dinner last week and S17 met him. I don't know why, but this kind of p!sses me off. She still denies that she left me for him. (Found him on a dating site and left me before she even met him.)
Anyways, everyone on this board has told me to detach and not be around when she brings S17 to my house or picks him up. I've been doing what everyone says and tonight she complained about it.
I was gone when she dropped of S17. (I planned it that way.) She had the following conversation with S21:
XW: Where's your father?
S21: At GF's house.
XW: Does he purposely disappear when I come over?
S21: I don't know.
XW: It seems that way.
S21. I guess.
XW: Well I think it is pretty immature that he is gone every time I come over.
Couple of things:
1) I was here the last time. I just didn't go outside.
2) The other times that she is here, I've been working.
What is the big deal? Why is she so high and mighty calling me childish? She didn't want me in her life so why does she care if I am here or not?
She told S17 that she wants him for Easter Weekend. I don't think I'm going to go along with that because she had him last Easter.
I find myself getting angry again.....
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
