WAW told me she doesn't want to be married pt3

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Your going to love this one. Had a texting conversation with my wife today. Started out with me asking if she picked up my daughter her shin guards for soccer yet. I was in a store that had them. Then it went to her telling me we need to clean out the storage locker and I need to take what is mine. I told her I will stop by and grab some things the next time I am up there after dropping kids off at school and day care. Here is the text conversation in full (h=her) (m=me)

h- When are we talking to the kids about whats happening
m-You mean in regards to me taking things. I have already said to my son I am not moving back in.
h-Well then that implies we need to talk more with them and start making changes, right?
m- Yea I guess not going to be easy, I don;t want to do it in the condo.
h-No I would not want to do that in the house either, and we should likely sit down and talk about it too first, but we need to make changes so things can be settled for them and also for us so we can move forward too. Sorry this is over text, didn't expect to talk about this now, I'm going food shopping for gods sake.... nothing like crying down the produce isle.
m- I am in kohls making a return and getting them pjs. we should talk next weekend.
h- our timings never been better apparently, ok
m-I have one hard question to ask you. Are you filing for divorce or are we just staying separated still. Also hate asking that over text. No our timing is just off right now.
h- At this point I don't know what the difference would be.
m-I don't know divorce is final. Separated is still in a holding pattern I guess. Yes I am hopeful always will be.
h- But haven't we all been on hold long enough? At some point stops feeling hopeful and more punitive.
m-Not to me. Know matter what happens I will always have a place for you. I know I am an ass for saying that. I am hiding in the pjs corner right now.
h-Well I'm at the deli counter...lol, I hear that but I don't think thats either fair or realistic, I dunno
m-Blame the books and sites I go to. I feel there is another day. Things have changed and you are different, but I have changed a lot as well just one thing has not. My hope

She stopped texting me at this point.

I am debating about giving her the divorce remedy book. I have read through it and honestly have no idea what to do with it. At least she could use it for her work.

I think I said all the right things and have been saying and doing all the right things. I don't understand it. Where is the logic?
This deal with the office is 75% done tomorrow it could be finalized meaning I will get my pay increase soon. I will be socking money away paying down debt and looking for a home this summer. I already have two friends to help me do renovations to my future home.
Time to try to get some sleep.