Wow, my W just had a 54 minute conversation with the new guy who's first name I know now and is the new guy I mentioned in the post above. Well I now really wonder if her back and forth is really just her back and forth with her various relationships she has had during our separation. I'm probably just being played like a fiddle. I'm the stupid spouse that keeps taking her back for moments at a time, seriously. Is this her calling to ask him or get validation to end her marriage with me and go with him? Oh well I put my cards on the table, if she wants to play is up to her. It hurts when she does this after I have put what I feel are my problems out on the table and she did not (I know I shouldn't look but this is all I have as a source to what is going on). Tomorrow is another day.


Me:29
W:28
S:2
M: 5 years
Bomb: 7-26-11
Separated: 8-20-11
EA w/ multiple OMs
W filed 1/2012