I feel your pain. I am also NOT detached. I just talked to my DB coach today and she said that I need to move on as if my H has made the decision to D and that we are divorced because I'm not doing myself any good.
I do need a hug, too, and I only want it from one person and that person doesn't want to hug me. I truly feel your pain!!
I hope you enjoy your movie and can get your mind off of things.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July