So much of this is about keeping the right perspective. When it comes down to it our spouses are/were but one small part of the whole of this world that makes our lives rewarding. We can choose to either give that one small part all our energy, or we can choose to embrace all those great things.
Your love of the sound of horse hooves resonated with me. I live next to a rescue, and there's nothing I love more than watching the horses play in the field next to my house (especially the shetland pony play fighting the thoroughbred! Little pony, massive confidence...we could learn a thing or two from him!), or hearing and feeling them gallop. Out of this world! Especially on a lazy afternoon from my hammock.
You're doing great...keep it up!
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011