Please I need some advice. My H just packed / left

[25yearsmlc]

don't you hate it when virtue goes unrewarded?

I "saved myself" too...but fortunately changed that when I got to college.

BTW it's crucial to note that I don't know of any OWs in my sitch, to this day. Never suspected one, still don't.

I could have more easily cheated than he could have, given his schedule. So the situations are very different.

But back to THIS situation *** I thought her h was being very remorseful and interested in whether she could ever forgive him/get past this (he has to believe this or he won't bother trying and she has to at least be open to it)

and she sounded very angry, wanting to "hurt OW" and or expose to third parties.

I still don't advise doing any of that, but I missed the part where he has openly ended the A.

Has he or not?

BTW Telling you that OW called and he did not answer her call, is NOT "ending the affair."

But then, did the OW say something like "it's over" anyhow? So did they mutually end it or what?

That stuff matters.