i'm heading home tomorrow and very apprehensive to be around my husband again. i'm afraid of taking the bait or not validating correctly. any suggestions on what i should do or say when he says:
how can i ever be happy with you again?

i don't have any dreams with you anymore!

i've listed the good and the bad about you and the bad outweighs the good.

you're evil.

i pushed my kids away for you!

statements like these aways take me by surprise and i usually end up getting defensive and trying to "correct" his memories. i know i shouldn't but i'm at a loss. i don't know how to deal with the distortions and the absolutes...
thanks for any guidance.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing