It's so hard not to say something to the H when they ignore the obvious pain/confusion that the babies are suffering with. Mine denies that S6's recent behavior issues at school have anything to do with him not living in the house and being inconsistent with the kids.

I really think they dont want to acknowledge that their actions are effecting the kids- too much hassle to admit it and do something to fix it- do they make excuses or ignore.... And *we* the LBS are left to deal the fallout.

I still pray for my H too- even though I think of him as a monster sometimes. It shows that you still have compassion for him even through all the pain he's causing you.
Bklyn, I admire your continued strength.

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12