Brooklyn Babe

[BklynMom]

2tp - I havent taken the girls to C. The therapist that my H and I saw regarding co-parenting didnt think that was necessary at this point. I totally hear what you are saying about not saying too much and honestly I been very good about that when telling collegues and aquaintances at work. I usually say H and I are going through some hard times and just leave it at that. However almost every person I am vague with about our sitch says "Does he have a girlfriend??" Its very ironic in some ways, cause my husband thinks he is Mr. Nice Guy and no one would ever think he has a OW but yet its the first thing everyone asks. My response to the question is "I have no idea"

Labug, my kids are babies and the little one isnt even in daycare yet. I dont see a realistic way to avoid these hand offs. Half the time we make the transition from my house to his we do it at the playground which is generally better. Also its easier to pretend this is honky dory in public. Weather and logistics sometimes prevent the outside hand off.

My H likes to pretend that this is A-okay but its not. The girls ask why cant mommy come with them and my H usually says something cockamayme like I need to watch the cats. Its aweful. My girls love us both so much.

Yesterday I asked D3 to "look for the shoes in mommys room" she said in front of my H "no its mommy-daddy room". H just ignores like he does the fact that the girls are hurting.

I do try to pray for him even though sometimes I see him as a monster.