Thank you all for the positive feedback. Would still love to hear Sandi's take on this. My W had told me that I would need to make the next move. This sort of feels like games one plays when dating. Not really fair, I guess. I'm certainly not pursuing her right now. But it's hard to not want to be there with her. I am missing her like crazy and just want this to work out, but am trying to remember the 180s that made her interested again.