I'd find it depressing but I don't know your h. MY H is an MD and the idea that he'd
sleep with someone who had sores on her genitals or any sign of disease and not use protection was just insane.
This is ridiculous. I can't can't believe I'm hearing this in 2012.
You realize 30% of women show no symptoms from chlamydial infections. Left untreated it can lead to infertility and has been linked to cervical cancer. And it's completely treatable!
HSV can show no signs as well.
That belief that one can look at a person and tell if they have an STD, or that protection is 100%, is just ignorant.
After my wife's affair, I got tested.
If it would have managed to happen we were to reconcile, I'd DEMAND she get tested and I wouldn't worry one single bit about her *feelings*.