I have been trying to read your posts and saw that you mentioned you think your H may have depression issues. I think the same thing about my H. 5 weeks ago, he gave me the "I have no feelings for you" and I want out, so he left.
It looks like you are doing a great job of not contacting him...this is where I have a hard time. I have probably only initiated texts like 5x in 5 weeks and have called him like 3 times, but it's been me. He responds, but they are short. So, keep up the good work with that!
Like Cadet says, you do need to have NO expectations. That is also something I am working very hard on because I have high expectations for myself so I have high expectations for others.
I'm glad to see that you have set goals for yourself and things you feel you need to change to make a better you.
I find that hard to do because my H, to this day, will say he has a great wife and has no complaints...weird huh! So, I'm not sure what I could work on to help our M...I am only working on things for me, like doing Zumba and reading more and things like that.
I wish I could give you more insight, but I'm lost every day!!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
