Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

JKS--

Thank you for your post! I backslid a little today (ugghhhh). I went and spent time with his family because both of his parents' birthdays are this weekend, so I brought over cards and cheesecake. I stayed and talked to them for a llloooong time. It was great catching up with them.

Then, when I left I called my H...he did pick up! I called to let him know that I was just leaving his parents' house and that we had a good visit and that there was leftover cheesecake there if he wanted to pick up some when he was going to be there this coming week. He said okay thanks. I asked him a little about work and then said "Well since I have you on the phone, when are you letting the dog out this week?" He gave me the days and I said "Great, thanks!" This is where I should have ended the conver.

I also said "I'm available Monday and Wednesday night for our dates this week, so do you want to meet for dinner or drinks Monday night." He said "I'll let you know." I, then said "I'm not understanding why you can't make this commitment to have a simple dinner with me." He said "I'm making the commitment to tell you I'll let you know." I, then, said "Okay, have a good night and I'll talk to you soon."

I know I should have just left it when he said "I'll let you know," but it was hard for me to control my emotions there. I, think, that if he doesn't go to dinner with me this week and texts me with a no, then I'm not even going to respond to him at all. He's giving me ALL the signs that he doesn't want to be with me....why am I sticking around!??!?!