Light at the end of the tunnel......

[NYCPeter]

Thanks everyone - I know it's a challenge, but it does not stop it being upsetting, I look after the girls every weekend at the moment, as she goes out to work Fri / Sat night and most Sunday days.

Having said that - the A with OM that was supposed to be over in the summer is back on. A friend of my W's for whatever reason decided to tell me to "be fair" - she said it cooled for a while but now it's back on.

Not sure what to do with this info - except store it for future use, it's no surprise given the hours she has been keeping. My L says adultery won't play into anything unless she is embarassed if it's exposed - I'm not sure I could ever do that to her - all I could do is use it as a threat for more time with the girls and pay a more reasonable animony amount. But I'm really not the threatening type...

Peace everyone...