Evas, Hate that we find ourselves in similar situations. This "person" is not my husband. I also believe depression pushed my husband to this point ( and the OW that he is still in denial about!). I wish you the best of luck. I lost both of my parents in an accident when I was 18. I do believe this blow is just as difficult to handle. The only thing I have to hold onto now if my faith. It's very hard because it seems like every sec of every day-H is on my mind. There are too many unanswered questions H has yet to address. H moved out Feb 17 - the way he is treating me , I suspect the next "bomb" to come at any moment. Keep me posted with your progress - ill be praying.
Spring is in the air-time for new life to begin
I just keep telling myself God can move mountains. Miracles happen every day. There is no reason we can't be one of them!