Hey BK! It's been awhile. Really good to hear you doing so well on the work front. It must feel good to have that distraction from the daily reminder of your sitch!

Did you ever figure out the separation anxiety issue with the kids? I think you had at one point been considering counseling for them. How did that work out?

I don't know what to tell you about your H. Maybe one day he'll figure it out. Let's hope so at least. In the meantime, I actually think it is healthy for you to share with others the fact that you and H are not living together.

I believe that the mere verbalizing of this helps you in your need to detach. Be careful to only share what is necessary for others to understand your current predicament. Just try to avoid the more intimate details as it can become real dicey if you then find yourself piecing things back together. Just remember the fewer tings said, the better.

Does this make sense?

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife