Originally Posted By: Quorumof1


Next weekend move out will probably be difficult. Possibly a mistake moving out but I'm not certain as it will take some time to figure out what she wants. All I can do right now is me.



Hmmmm. Methinks thou doth contradicteth thyself there.


Q1, I will give you one of the very best pieces of advice I got in DBing:

When faced with a situation, don't look at it from a standpoint of "How will my wife react if I say/do this? Will she be angry? How will her reaction make ME feel?"

Instead, learn to operatate from a standpoint of: in every given situation, ask yourself "What is THE RIGHT THING TO DO in this situation? What is the thing that God Himself would have me do, if He were standing right in front of me?"

And then let the chips fall where they may.

Staying in your own home was "The Right Thing To Do," irrespective of how your wife reacts to it. Is it too late to change your mind, because of the rental contract?


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)