Each Step is a First Step

[Quorumof1]

Welcome to the board.

So you moved out, yes that might have been a mistake but all you can do is pick yourself up dust yourself off and get on living your life.

You have read the 37 rules, so stop begging pleading and pursuing.

She is asking for SPACE, give it to her.
Get out and GAL.
DETACH.
Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.

You may be on moderation right now on the forum.
SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

Stick to one thread until you get to 100 posts.

Your W is giving you a GIFT.
THE GIFT OF TIME.

USE it wisely.

Thanks Cadet!

I was almost certain you would give a post and I was ready for it.

Been doing pretty much everything according to the 37 rules and have backed off on all pursuit stuff. For the moment I'm actually in a reasonable headspace. I have no doubts there will be ups and downs.

Next weekend move out will probably be difficult. Possibly a mistake moving out but I'm not certain as it will take some time to figure out what she wants. All I can do right now is me.

Cheers,

Q1