I know this whole patience thing is driving ne nuts. It is good that he is goinng to db but our coach says hes still trying to decide if there's enough in the marriage to save. I just want him to open up and start saving.
I don't know why my h is going to db because part of me thinks hes just doing to say 'he tried'. I told him though that if you're not really into figuring out what went wrong in our marriage and in life then you're wasting our time. He said he knew and that he has to figure this out but who knows. I just don't understand the immediate detachment from me and not wanting to talk to anyone.
His bray wa yesterday and only four Pol tested him...that would have sunk in for me that I need to get my life in order.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July