I only just got your posts because of the moderation delays so apologies on that front. Yeah, I'm working on the GAL side of things, and I need to make more of an effort there are things I can do that don't cost a lot. I've got 7 weeks left @ UNI & TBH I have just about got enough time to finish everything as I've fallen behind with what has gone on in my sitch. I had a blast this morning swimming with my main man S6 and that has left me in a good mood. I'm just waiting for W to come back so I can go out to the library for a bit, before she goes out tonight. I'm not working right now, so that is an issue too. But to be fair my W spent �10k from my redundancy on home improvements & a holiday to Florida, so if that makes me a sponge for not working for 3 months I can live with that. My course finishes on May 8th after which I'll be looking for full time temping work until my PGCE starts in Sept.
I'm working on some other 180's being more decisive. For example being more assertive, i.e I'm going, I'm doing. I'm not taking any more of her moods. I feel a bit like Brett in DR story around the 180 part. Well that's about to change, no more cups of tea, (her) washing and (excessive - ie me doing it all) cleaning gonna get done by me.
Thanks Norfolk for posting bits about your sitch, there's bound to be a similar thread on here that you can relate to - the DR book is great - loving the advice I'm getting from it :-)
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
