We clearly disagree. Well, I think. I don't have the energy to read your novel, kind of quoted, highlighted yet colored - in entirety.
I'm here to help Snowman in my way, having successfully DBing myself to happiness. I'm not here to make you happy with my opinion.
I've read Crimsons thread sporadically.
Funny. Not haha. Strange.
I met my boyfriend here. We've been together quite awhile. Historically, I've said. What a great place to have met my boyfriend. We both had a desire to make a marriage work, and were willing to do work on it and ourselves to improve it.
I can tell you this. The current crop of poor men in limbo w/no voice nor support to have one???? I hope that when they're forced out of being the better option, and their marriage breaks up, that their Match membership doesn't link to their old threads here.
Not attractive.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.