People keep preaching patience, patience, patience, right? That time is on our side. The good thing in your sitch is that you H is open to MC...you saw the DB coach together, and he's receptive to the suggestions. That's awesome! You're already taking steps in the right directions!
Sorry you find yourself in the "there's an OW/OM" group I'm dealing with OW at work thing as well. Even though I feel like I'm more at peace with the sitch as a whole, OW is a big trigger for me and I'm at risk for backsliding. I'm working on keeping my mouth shut, but I admit that I've had a couple of blow ups at H where I couldn't stop myself from saying what was bothering me. I do believe that the first big blow up got the balls rolling for H...hopefully for the better.
It sounds like you're doing well. Just keep remembering that this is the time to work on yourself. Be the best H&P you can be - I noticed you changed your name
I'm dealing with OW at work thing as well. Even though I feel like I'm more at peace with the sitch as a whole, OW is a big trigger for me and I'm at risk for backsliding. I'm working on keeping my mouth shut, but I admit that I've had a couple of blow ups at H where I couldn't stop myself from saying what was bothering me. I do believe that the first big blow up got the balls rolling for H...hopefully for the better.
