You are so right about the birthdays and other occasions. I do think I have been pretty good about giving him his space. We've only talked on the phone like 3 times since the separation and have only seen each other 3 times (2 of those times at DB coaching).
Yes, the finances was not meant to be a negative call.
I do need to work on no expectations. I have become better about that, too....not great, but better. I guess I do have expectations for us now, because our DB coach said to start seeing each other more and opening lines of communication in a positive way. We saw each other once this past week and are supposed to see each other twice this week and just talk about life...positive things...not our R.
As for GAL, I started taking a Zumba class and reading more. I am talking to friends more and going out, but it's not what I really want to do. I'm forcing myself to do these things. I have also been investing more time in my job, so it keeps me busy. I have also started to take my dog for longer walks.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
