H's friend came by to get his rifle today. He dropped by H's workplace, where he used to work, to get the key to the gun locker. H just came out, handed it to him, said to leave it here, and left. That's it. Friend is still shaking his head. He talked to some of the co-workers but H stayed away.

Friend told me today that when they talked earlier in the week H avoided all questions about the breakup. Just quickly changed the subject.

Friend doesn't understand it, moreso now that he's seen our house. He said that this is everything H said he ever wanted. We wondered whether H is depressed. Who knows.

Anyway, H's friend said next time he and his family are in the area (they have friends near here) they'll pop in to see how I'm doing. This brings me comfort because it confirms my position that H has lost his mind. Not that I want him to lose his mind, but you know what I mean....

me 45
H 46
T 5
M 2.5
BD Sept 6 2011
OW Sept 8 2011
Threw him out Sept 8 2011