I'm glad to hear that you are having positive interactions with your H and that you had a wonderful time. I, too, need to learn to like to be myself. I have tried to do things for myself (have picked up a dance class and am reading more), but it's just not the same.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July