Thanks Denver

I think I'm starting to get the hang of this now, but I just need the guidance from people like yourself who are further along their journey's giving me encouragement and good advice. I didn't have that conversation and I'm just going to keep trying harder to stay more positive around her. It's really hard to know what the best thing to do is in some situations, sometimes your conscience gets the better of you & tempts you from breaking some of Sandi's 37 rules.

I've got nothing left to lose, so I may as well stay on track detaching, i like your view - lovingly detach (like loving from a distance). I've been finding it really hard to focus on my UNI work lately but it's now proving to be a welcome distraction & a different pressure.

Thanks for the good GAL advice, I'll have to try harder on that front. I'm taking the kids swimming in the morning - so that'll be the highlight for me this weekend. Take care Denver & I hope you have fun as well this weekend.

Cheers Bill


Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy