I know it would be a backslide from detaching, but I really feel like I should clear the air with my W. Maybe say that I've been giving her space since Thursday and that I have been coming to terms with what she wants, but that there is no reason why we can't get along and be nice to each other. That this is not good for either of us.

Is that pursuing? I don't feel like talking about our R right now anyway, because it wouldn't acheive anything. I don't want to quiz her over the OM and I don't want to ruin any hope of us reconciling in the future.

I'm in a bit of a dilema, because the atmosphere in this house is starting to stink and I think I'm just making my W resent me & that her decision is being vindicated each day we are interacting like this.

Any thoughts on this and my previous post?

Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy