meeting went very well...my L is very prepared and confident that we wont have any problems...she preparing a response to there purposal and we wait to see were that goes...its just begun i fear..
as we were sitting there discussing how STBX doesnt want his OT included in his income because its not gaurenteed (He works MAJOR overtime and always has, have documentation to prove it) and that he wants more time with S15, STBX calls again for the 3rd time in a row and cancels his weekend with S15 because he has to work OT....My attorney and I got a good laugh out of that and she documented it in her response...
I feel much better...tried not to be nit picky in our response, told her I wanted the whole thing to go with state guidlines..thats it, have some homework to do this weekend to get some paperwork together that she requested and then we just wait I guess.. SunFun...I would only hope that STBX would respect S15s wishes and not force the issue of the ow on him but history has shown that he doesnt really care what S15s wishes are. My son is afraid that he is going to walk into his Ds house one day and she will just be there...and that wouldnt surprise me at all...
Now Im putting it out of my head for the rest of the weekend!!
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...