Is this cake eating 5

[Denver_2010]

Bustorama and Cadet are most definitely correct. Do not show him the book or suggest that he read one. As Cadet said, there are no short cuts to this. If he wants to change the current path that he has put himself on, it will have to come from within himself. People don't like to be told to change. We resist that. This is what he will do because telling him to read a book is pressuring behavior and pursuit.

It is only when we decide that we need to change first that we are inclined to actually do it. The best thing that you can do is work on yourself... be the change that you would like and hope to see.

Denver