Oh & Bill I re-read your kind words re my sitch. It isn't that I won't post it I just haven't worked out how to do it! So for you my sitch:
Me: 41 H: 40 M: 2+ yrs T: 17+ yrs No kids just Dog! Bomb: ILYBNILWY & wanted a divorce 11/15/2011 Confirmed EA: 11/24/2011 Reconciled: 12/16/2011 Confirmed PA: 01/08/2012 Just taking it all one day at a time!
In some ways although this has been the most excruciatingly painful experience of my life, I have learnt so much & gained so much. I was lucky because I found Michelle's website & books before I found out about his affair.