You're absolutely right, adinva. I've grown a lot, but I still have so far to go.

At our last MC appt, our C demonstrated how we could improve our communication by acting out the poker conversation with us. She took my place in the conversation and spoke with J in a constructive manner, then she had us switch it all around. At one point I was J and she was me. I hope I explained that well enough! Anyway, it helped us to understand how we could handle these situations.

M & H 25
T 9
D 7
S 4
Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me.
Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out
2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other.
3-4-12 H moved back in.
3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done