Hi Mach1 I just came on here to see if Jc180 was writing all this down. As I failed to mention it earlier. It is an extremely important step. To document everything. It helps legally and it helps emotionally.
JC when you journal. Take some time out to journal what you see as your problems. But make sure you always balance it with what you see as her problems.
As it takes two people to break a marriage. As it takes two people to put a marriage back together.
And remember that the legal divorce and the emotional side are separate.
You need to figure out yourself if you want to attempt to save the marriage or not.
The legal aspects are for the protection of your son and your wellbeing. This is a goal you have stated from the get go.
It was good to see that reason came into play between you two and you could communicate as adults about the bills. And as Mach says. Always remain respectful, honest and fair. It will help you more in the long run than anything else.
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