Starsky, it is not much of a plan but my wife texted me today and finally said lets met Saturday to chat about things. I don't have expectations at this point as I shouldn't and have learned my lesson about applying any pressure so I will see where the conversation goes.
I'm thinking about finishing the letter I have written and giving it to her that I was recommended to day further back in my stitch. What do you think?
Any other advice for my upcoming conversation?
Yes, but you're apparently not listening to it. I'm trying to say that "guess we'll see what happens," and "I will see where the conversation goes" are passive, aimless ways to live your life.
YOU NEED A PLAN, and then you need to work like hell to EXECUTE that plan. You are just drifting, hoping for the best. As a wise old poster around here used to say (and I think he was quoting his military commander) "Hope ain't a plan."
